my father-in-law died before he could help me figure out all the intricies of a website and i have beem stuck with thirty years without someone who can help me figure out how to keep up this website.  Even my husband becomes suddenly deaf when I mention problems with my website.  He helps me with everything else, but I’m sure that he knows that guy who helped me set this up a decade or so ago before he disappeared into the world of extreme religion.and sometimes I call him in desperation but he doesn’t really know what I did to screw things up.

in the end the answer is simple and I will discover it – but my life, my life, is totally disappearing behind my back as I progress in this world of passwords.  have patience with me please.  i’ll get it right eventually.