blog, my life in tel aviv

we’re still in lockdown and it is pretty clear we’ve all gone over the edge.  Even if we plan to meet on zoom, one of us forgets.  

but i have discovered that my birthday this year is the same day for the Hebrew and the Roman calendar.  After the second seder, my mother went into labor.  My father recommended that my mother wait until morning, because there was a particularly nasty rocket attack on London going on at the time, but my mother insisted, and they went to the Salvation Army Hospital in Hackney, which had been recently bombed.  My mother complained that she was forced off the table as soon as I was born and made to run for shelter, but the delivery room was also a shelter.  Anyway, it was the last night of those nasty V2 rockets.  That’s why I remember my birthday dates.  

Since nothing happens except the continuing discovery of continuing corruption in our government, I have gone to my past for a bit of optimism.  And although I told Ezi the story over and over again when we met, it never really meant anything to him until one day we were visiting the science museum in Munich and there was a display of weapons.  Suddenly Ezi stopped in from of a rocket and said, this is your partner.  It was a V2 rocket, and the sign in front of it said only, ‘last flight march 29, 1945.’

january 22, 2021 – birthday plans Read Post »

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Was I the only person not- totally celebrating at the inauguration? was it only me who was just a little worried about the sermons and the religious songs?  I mentioned something about the separation of church and state on my Facebook and got no response as if I had tried to ruin the party.  But it couldn’t be the only one wondering at the second-hand bible quotes slipping in and out of the ceremony, from “Halleluja” to the excluded stanzas of “This Land is Your Land”now I read Mira Fox in the Forward and she points out the religious nature of the ceremony.  I’m waiting for someone to now say that there were too many catchwords without substance, that the cliches were taken out of context.   I believe in Biden, but I’m troubled by the overused phrases.

january 21, 2021 – Faith in the inauguration Read Post »

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Although we’ve had dogs for many years, my only experience in recent months is with street cats.  We never trained dogs – they always trained us – and now we’re experiencing the same thing with cats.  One particularly wild street cat comes by a few times a day for meals.  She tells us what she wants by pointing to the relevant cupboard or fridge, and if I am working in my study, goes to sleep on my couch.  If I am doing housework, she leaves in a huff.  But I also meet other cats wherever I go.  Yesterday, when a severe sciatica attack made me go to the orthopedist, I found a street cat in the waiting room.  She waited with the receptionist and I asked to whom she belonged.  The receptionist said she was taken care of by the other storefront offices, but she always joined her during reception hours because orthopedists – unlike pediatricians and gynecologists – have patients who might call her over to be petted. 

 

 

january 21, 2021 – Corona and cats Read Post »

my life in tel aviv

just a few words about my health.  Turns out I haven’t been able to walk because I have sciatica.  Who cares about the minor consequences of the vaccine? From a knee that wouldn’t bend, I moved to the big nerve pain from the back all the way down.  As soon as I realized that yesterday afternoon I called the orthopedist who saw me immediately and gave me all the medications possible.  But it was only after i spoke to Oren who reminded me of physiotherapy that things began to improve.  So I may be able to do more than kvetch very soon.

 

january 21, 2021 – a personal medical account Read Post »

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No one could hope for a more fun vaccination than we had.  At the entrance to the site we got asked – very quickly – if we had fever, have been abroad, had a sense of taste, and as we were getting used to saying no, switched to positive questions like “do you have an appointment?  are you here for the vaccine? …Ha! fooled you! Just checking to see if you were paying attention…”   Then they brought us together to a very cheery nurse – a heavy-set, braided, black man, who picked up on my strange sense of humor and realized that humor relaxes the muscles.  We joked about our respective ages, our health, our reactions… and …we were out… cut our waiting time short and off to bed.  To watch the departure of Trump from the white house.

what a delight – to keep switching channels and hearing the antithetical takes of CNN and FOX on the political games people play….  

 

january 20, 2021 – vaccine and inauguration Read Post »

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one of the few things I argue with my husband about is the fact that he doesn’t record his family history, especially the stories of his grandfather, Arpad Gut.  Many of the buildings and bridges and water towers he built in Israel and Hungary are well known, but nothing has ever been written about the Kazinczy Street Synagogue in Budapest.    Arpad built this synagogue in 1913 – before the war – and it was one of the last things he built in the city before he was sent to the Front as an engineer, wound up in a Prisoner of War camp in Kajkstan and walked home after the war.  Once home in Budapest he was uninvited (as a Jew) to the opening of a building he built just before the war, and decided to move to Israel.  The synagogue, to my mind, has great symbolic value to the history of the Jews in Europe in the story I want Ezi to write.

of course he doesn’t read my blog, so he won’t be influenced by my plea…

january 19, 2021 – The Kazinczy Street Synagogue Read Post »

israeli politics, my life in tel aviv

First thing in the morning we will be getting our second vaccine.  Because I seem to react to everything with force, I’m not planning any activity.  But I will be glued to CNN and FOX, my eyes on the football bags. 

Israeli politics is much less dramatic.  We were not even told that all our info has been shared with Pfizer. If the whole debate in the US in recent years has been about the right to privacy, we aren’t in the discussion.  

january 19, 2021 – tomorrow – inauguration Read Post »