I was too busy to write anyway because I was planning, together with a Muslim friend, their wedding celebration – all multilingual poetry. All we could think about was how to bring people together, bring languages together. The entire idea of literary censorship was so antithetical to my entire concept of literature I couldn’t believe it.
But then I remembered many years ago when I was a guest of the British Government, that we were told to go to a writer’s house for dinner. But when we got there on a rainy night, there was no one home. Fearing I made a mistake, I called her number. And after I went home (hungry) and emailed her, she never answered.
I didn’t report this to the government, but I knew what it meant. You do too.
Last April we went to an exhibit about breaking boundaries at the Holon Museum. So much has happened since then, and so many boundaries have been broken, not only the cute sexual ones indicated here:
but the ones in the army in the front.
The greatest impression on me was the ads for underwear from amputees. I thought it was so daring, and so imaginative. What I didn’t realize was that it is real. Delta, the most popular brand in the country, has an entire line of underwear for women with disabilities:
https://www.delta.co.il/women/collections/10315
This tells you something about daily life here. You have to scroll through the whole collection in order to understand what the young people of Israel are going through.
Since my aunt was one of the escapees I’ve always been fascinated by this unique life-saving project, so antithetical to the death tunnels in Gaza and Lebanon.
With a day that began with a terrible terrorist attack, killing, so far, only one, but injuring over 35, we mourn the losses of the past year. And while we’re trying to sort this out, two people were injured from a Hizballah drone in an Arab village. In the past week we’ve had 56 new orphans from soldiers who were fathers but were killed in combat. It is all incredibly confusing.
Most of us don’t want to think about it. If we’re not in the front or don’t have captured or displaced friends we try to ignore the situation when there are no rockets. But we always know there are terrible threats around the corner, and any bad news reminds us of that. I see it in the daily behaviour of people, the little slip-ups, the wrong turns, tiny things forgotten.
But with all that – we’re still thinking straight and functioning. We have been roped into a serious war by two major attacks on Israel by Iran – and now we’ve got to stay even-headed.
So we spent the evening helping a grandchild study for a math test of Sunday. Will there be school on sunday? Will there be a test?
In 1973, when the Yom Kippur war broke out, we hid in the shelter. I hadn’t even known that we had one, but there it was, with bunk beds that reminded me of Auschwitz. We didn’t use it after the first day, when there was no immediate danger any more, and we didn’t think any more of it. But in the Gulf War, since it was clear most people didn’t have shelters, we were instructed to tape our windows and hide in a room we could seal off from the gas attack we were threatened with. We spent many long hours in our gas masks in the kitchen, and I wrote a poem a day, like this one:
CIVIL DEFENSE
January 1991
Here is your family
gas mask kit. It will do
good only with
the right gas. Of course,
with the other gas ‑
that infiltrates the skin ‑
you must stay inside
the nearest third story
flat you can seal. You
don’t want to go too high,
however, in case
of conventional
bombs. Because gas
is heavy, it will invade
the lower
floors and shelters.
But if gas and bombs are used together,
you have what we define as
a problem.
The only instructions I remember were that we were told to drink water.
After the “Desert Storm” war in 1991, however, it became clear that shelter was needed, and a law was enacted to mandate security rooms and/or shelters for new buildings. Most people use their “security room” for storage, and they were filled with junk. I tried to get my neighbors to add on a safe room, but no one was interested. Now they’re too old to run down to the shelter and sit in the hall.
Our home was built in 1970 and the one thing the builder did right was make a shelter. Ezi’s father built the home my daughter now lives in in 1947 – no shelter.
So we’re beginning again. We’re reading the Bible all over again. It always feels new, and like a chance to be born over again. But there’s still me, and you, and the wars that intensify and diminish but never end. If it’s not Beowulf, it’s Grendel, if it’s not Jabberwock, it’s the Jubjub bird. So beginning again spiritually gives you a new way to handle it, maybe. It doesn’t stop Cain from killing Abel, but maybe helps to understand the dangers before us – how our extreme desires can ruin an otherwise perfect world.