Oh, come on, it was everywhere: high school pressures, strangers on the street. Sometimes I wonder of any of those guys are still alive and feeling regretful.

But when I got out of school and into the world, it was horrendous.  I sat with Ezi yesterday and started counting the number of editors, professors, doctors, employers, and just people who wanted me to do things – sometimes for a job that I didn’t get because I didn’t behave…  So when I think of sexual abuse I think of how my career suffered from a lack of acquiescence and a sense of unworthiness as a result.