Read this first:

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2022/mar/18/bombs-rain-down-family-history-save-ukraine-putin-nato-eu

Jonathan Freedman wrote about the trauma that remains with him from March 27, 1945 bombings on England.  I have to add that I was born two days after. When the last V2 rocket fell on London, I was being born.  My parents never got over that night when they raced to a bombed hospital to let me be born, and my brother would pull me under the steel table in our garden whenever there was a loud noise.  I still can’t bear fireworks.  Can you imagine what the residents of the Ukraine are feeling now, and what they will feel for the rest of their lives?