On the way home, after weeks of traveling, we had become accustomed to receiving a blank response when we answered the question of where we were from. Perhaps that was why I wasn’t prepared for the response in a shop in the Dubai airport. They really didn’t have shoes in my size, but insisted on trying to fit my swollen feet into sleek runners. We had a few good laughs about those clodhoppers of mine before they asked where we were from. And I said without thinking “Israel.” And they responded without thinking, “Palestine.” Were we less off balance we would have expanded our answer, “Yeah, Palestine” with Ezi’s standard “Yes, I was born in Palestine.” And maybe we would have continued the conversation. But suddenly everything stopped. The salesmen suddenly found new customers and we wandered away.
Last night as I was unpacking I realized how unusual that conversation stopper was, how many times I had replied “Tel Aviv,” and how many times the questioner from an Arab country had replied “Israel? We are cousins,” or “I am from Nablus.”
I don’t know why this particular conversation bothers me. I want to go back just to talk to these guys.