family history trip - 4.27.24
Ezi spent all day yesterday preparing a powerpoint with all the family history, childhood photographs, and dozens of pictures and diagrams of buildings and bridges his family built. This morning our neice came with her daughter to preview the powerpoint before the trip around Tel Aviv to visit the sites themselves.
Some of our grandkids have seen the watertowers, the breakwaters, the edifices Ezi’s father and gradfather built. Some even know Ezi’s part in the story. But I wish we could have filmed it all. We wound up refreshing the tombstones of Ezi’s grandparents in Trumpeldor cemetery.
This is definitely my favorite cemetery – not only because so many of Ezi’s relative are there. and all the ‘streets of Tel Aviv’ are there, but because it’s so informal. You can see that a cemetery in Judaism is just a place to dump the body and not to take up space. There are dozens of ‘anonymous’ graves too, that remind one that lots of people came here alone, usually because their families had been killed, and they never got the know anyone before the wars took them.
i also love the fact that it’s in the middle, part of the city – and it’s hard to distinguish the famous poet’s grave from the apartment building around it. This is Tschernichovsky’s grave
and if you know nothing else about him, remember these lines:
“Laugh, laugh at my dreams
I laugh at them too
laugh that I believe in mankind
that I still believe in you.”
(Most people translate it a more formal tone like here: https://www.emjc.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/03/Tchernichovskythe-other-national-poet.pdf
And not far away is Arik Einstein, who turns my heart upside down every time a song of his is played on the radio:
https://www.haaretz.com/life/books/2013-12-25/ty-article/.premium/poem-of-the-week-our-sinatra-our-cleese-our-seeger-our-jew/0000017f-db06-df62-a9ff-dfd7a9d40000
Arik
The last
time I saw him
he pushed
back from the table
stood and
pulled up his shirt
to show his
stomach.
“This,” he
said, “this is solid.”
And I
agreed.
Last month
I passed
the
restaurant,
“Crown of
the East,”
and thought
–
it’s still
there
Where I sat
once with Eli
who’s long
dead, and they’re even now
probably
talking song and soccer,
and Arik
still drops by.
But today
comes with news
suddenly
with his death
the
spontaneity of a people’s love,
the same
public fervor he would have said
distracts
us from important issues…
And always
always I hear him
on the
radio, on my smartphone,
in my head,
wherever I
am
and I
think:
this, this
is solid.